Mere Zindagi Ki Kahani - (My Life Story - Hindi Translation)

Yeh hai MERI ZINDAGI KI KAHANI—ek aatma jo insani anubhav jee rahi hai Sandra Nand ke roop mein, ek coach aur ek nayi likhne waali lekhika.

Re-righting Life Stories meri apni zindagi ke anubhavon par aadhaarit hai. Yeh un faislon par adhaarit hai jo maine liye aur un seekhon par jo maine apni zindagi sudharne ke liye apnaayi. Mera junoon aur uddeshya dhoondhne ki iccha meri sabse badi motivation bani. Isi motivation ne mujhe yeh faisla lene par majboor kiya ki main auraton ki madad karoon jo apni zindagi ka junoon aur uddeshya dhoondhna chahti hain.

Maine 17 saal tak public service mein kaam kiya, jise chhodne ka mann nahi tha. Ek surakshit naukri, pakki kamaayi aur ek pehchaan—yeh sab kuch ek aaraamdaayak aur surakshit zindagi dete the. Lekin dheere-dheere yeh sab mujhe ek bojh lagne laga, kyunki yeh meri asli pehchaan se alag ho gaya tha. Mera resign karna tay tha.

Meri maa ki January 2023 mein mrityu hui, jo mujhe yeh yaad dilane ke liye kaafi thi ki zindagi jeeni chahiye, sirf katani nahi chahiye. Yehi ek wajah thi jisne mujhe apne junoon par kaam karne aur ek uddeshya bhari zindagi jeene ki taqat di.

Mujhe jo main aaj hoon banne mein char saal lage. Yeh samajhna zaroori tha ki ek passion aur purpose-driven life jeene ke liye mujhe kya zaroorat thi. Yeh sab ek badlav ke liye pratibaddh hone aur khud par nivesh karne ki tayyari se shuru hua. Maine mentors aur ek coach ko dhoonda jinki seekh ne mujhe badalne ka prerna di. Unka salaah, margdarshan aur samarthan mere badlav ke liye ek doosre se judta gaya.

Mujhe yeh samajh aaya ki humare vichar hi humari hakikat ka nirmaan karte hain. Isliye maine apni soch badalne par kaam kiya taaki meri zindagi badal sake. Maine un kahaniyon ko kehna band kar diya jo meri purani soch aur vyavhaar ko darshaati thi.

Is safar ke dauraan maine seekha ki apni bhavnayein pehchanna aur unhe swikaarna zaroori hai. Jab maine apne aap ko chunne ki himmat dikhayi tab maine samjha ki apni zindagi ko control karne ki zaroorat nahi hai. Jab maine apne andar ki rukaavaton ko paar kiya, tab meri zindagi badalne lagi.

Zindagi badal gayi jab maine yeh badal diya ki main kaise sochti, mehsoos karti aur paristhitiyon par pratikriya deti hoon. Mujhe tab pata chala ki main badal chuki hoon jab maine apne beete dukh aur gusse ko shukrane mein badalte dekha. Maine apne anubhavon ka upyog kiya taaki bhavishya ki paristhitiyon ko behtar samajh saku.

Jise main pehle apni suraksha samajhti thi, wahi asal mein mujhe ek pinjre mein bandh rahi thi. Har bade faisle ke saath mujhe ek azadi ka anubhav hua—chaahe woh meri pakki naukri chhodne ka faisla ho ya doosri auraton ki madad karne ka.

Naye aur anjaane duniya mein kadam rakhne par, mujhe naye challenges ka samna karna pada. Mere apne hi moolya, vishwas prathaayein aur purani sochne ki dhang sabse badi chunauti thi.

Maine apne mentors ki seekh ko apne jeevan moolyon aur vishwas prathaayon ke saath jodna seekha. Inhe apni naye zindagi ka hissa banana zaroori tha, aur yeh tabhi sambhav tha jab maine apne andar ke virodhi se samna kiya.

Maine seekha ki kabhi-kabhi virodhi humare andar hota hai. Mera ego baar-baar mujhe yeh sochne par majboor karta ki kya main sahi raste par hoon? Kya yeh sach mein ek kaam hai? Lekin main jaanti thi—ego ko lagta hai ki usko pata hai, lekin atma ko sach mein pata hota hai.

Meri zindagi ki rachna mere haathon mein thi. Jab maine apni atma ki awaaz suni aur ek kadam uthaya, phir ek aur, tab jaadu hone laga.

Apne aap se pyaar karne ka vichar shuru mein swarthi lag sakta hai, lekin mujhe yeh samajh aaya ki yeh sabse nishkapat aur zaroori cheez hai jo main apne jeevan ke liye kar sakti hoon.

Self-love sirf apne baal banwane ya nail polish lagwane se nahi hota. Yeh ek akele baitne, khud ko samajhne aur apne andar ki shuddh prem ko mehsoos karne se hota hai.

Pehle pehle chup-chaap baitna mushkil tha, kyunki dabe hue vichar aur bhavnayein ubharne lagti thi. Lekin bina kisi apeksha ke jo prem mujhe mehsoos hua, usne mujhe andar se poora kar diya.

Self-love ke saath authenticity, self-worth aur spasht boundaries aayi. Par sachha pariksha tab hua jab mujhe apne naye swaroop ko rozmarra ki zindagi mein samil karna pada.

December 2022 mein, maine ek hafte ka retreat book kiya tha jo March 2023 mein Sunshine Coast, Australia mein hone wala tha. Yeh mera chhatha retreat tha 2019 se, jab maine apne self-development ki journey shuru ki thi. Yeh mere liye ek moka tha jisme main apne jaise logon ke saath seekh sakti thi aur meditation kar sakti thi.

Jab retreat ka din nazdeek aaya, maine socha ki kya mujhe jaana chahiye? Kya yeh zaroori hai? Lekin yeh ek aisi anubhav rahi jo meri zindagi ka sabse bada parivartan le aayi.

Jab maine apne aap ko ek coach aur writer ke roop mein introduce kiya, toh mujhe aise log mile jo apne passion aur purpose ko dhoondhne nikle the. Unhone apne jeevan mein badlav kiya aur usse pyaar karna seekha.

Jo kahani main apne baare mein keh rahi thi, universe usi ko dikhane laga.

Jab main wapas aayi, toh ek naya drishti kon mila. Yeh drishti kon yeh batata tha ki meri zindagi ki shakti mere haathon mein thi. Mujhe sirf ek cheez karni thi—zindagi se pyaar karna.

Yeh sirf meri kahani ka ek hissa hai.

Meri puri kahani mein woh sab kuch hai jo mujhe sochne par majboor kar raha tha—main apni zindagi ke saath kya kar rahi hoon? Kya cheez mujhe badalne ki zaroorat hai? Maine apne upar nivesh kaise kiya? Maine kaise apna passion aur purpose dhoondha? Kaise ek naye insaan ke roop mein apni kahani ko integrate kiya?

Aapki ZINDAGI KI KAHANI kya hai?

Agar aap bhi apni kahani ko dobara likhna chahte hain, toh Re-righting Your Life Story ka WHAT, WHY aur HOW jaanne ke liye agla blog zaroor padhiye!